Hello people,
I hope everyone had a wonderful day today. I just got home about 20 minutes ago after leaving the office at 4:30 (it’s now 6:44). Traffic was ridiculous today. I can not wait till those days of sitting in traffic to get home are over. Anyway apparently some people (Kari) have a problem with my grammar whenever I write my blogs. First off let it be known I'm an Engineer not an English teacher THANKS!!!! lol. No, but for real I almost got mad at her this morning. I felt like she wasn’t really being encouraging by always point out my flaws (grammar) whenever I posted my blog. I was like damn here she go again critizing my shit, but in fact it wasn’t until I told myself not to get crazy mad and let her explain herself, and she did. After she did I understood, and imp glad she does it. However for a brief moment there we were disconnected in trying to understanding each other over something so small, but if you know us could have easily got out of hand. This leads me to my point that communication between couples is very important. Women just don’t think like men, and men don’t think like women. What makes it worse for us (me and Kari) is that she comes from a family of all girls where they are all sensitive and always in touch with their” feelings" and crap like that loll. They speak very gently to each other when one is down and I guess better understand each other when a situation arises. Well I come from an ALL boy family. We don’t cry. My father put it in our heads early that crying fixes nothing, so we just didn’t cry. lol. Whenever my brothers were acting "soft" they were told about themselves and got made fun of, and vice versa. That’s just they way we dealt with things. With that said both of our experiences carried over into our relationship and made things challenging. A challenge that I would say has gotten better over time, but still needs work. I actually believe like I said earlier women and men just don’t see eye to eye, and will never see eye to eye; however if worked at we all maybe can understand each other better. I even decided to do the whole therapy thing to work on my communication skills among other things. I feel like sometimes I’m just too brutally honest/opionated, and I’m willing to work on that for some peace of mind. lol
So I finally got a place I don't remember if I said so, but yea I’m finally moving out. I'm excited I feel like everything is really come into place and this is one more step forward in claiming my adult-hood. It's really going to be good for me and Kari because maybe just maybe she'll open up a little more (if you know what I mean) lol. Yea basically though the privacy will be good for us, so i’m excited about that too. lol yesterday I threw my groomsmen under the bus. Just to clarify they all did a wonderful job of showing up and help in anyway they could, but they just didn’t listen when I said to wear a certain color that’s all. lol.
Kari told me today that I’m losing my readers because I’m not consistent with my posting blog. So first off I want to thank the people actually read the blog regardless of when I post it. I will try harder from this point on the be very consistent.
Peace!!
304 days left!!!!! I love it I can't wait. I thank Father Almighty for the blessing he has giving to me in Kari Lawal
