Hello world!!!!!!!
Sorry for the major hiatus , but I was on a brief sabbatical. I had to find myself. lol. Anyway can't believe there is 154 days left. Yet time still seems to be moving slow, at least to me it does. As the time nears to the wedding I seem to get more and more impatient. The long distance is taking a toll on me, and I cant wait to wake up next to my wife. Basically a brother get lonely and the only person I want to spend my time with is Kari. What sucks about our current situation is whenever either one of us goes to see each other we never get no/limited QT time together (and I don't mean bumping and grinding) because we're trying to fit so much shit in basically one day; and before you know it its time to go.That's been our routine for the last several months, so I can't wait for that to be over.
We have 5 months from Wednesday left until the wedding, and it feels like shit ain't done yet. lol. ( Prolly cuz it ain't) I mean both venues are still undecided, Limo ain't booked yet because we don't know the address of a venue we don't have. We had a DJ, but we may be changing that too. The only thing certain right now is the Honeymoon and the save the date cards. lol. But like I said in my other post its the gift and curse of having Nigerian parents basically funding your wedding. I mean we can't make a move without them. And that basically fucks with Kari because she feel like its her wedding, her day, (rightfully so) and she should be able to make most of the decisions especially on the things we paying for. This situation causes problems between me and Kari all the time. I have an easier time dealing with this, and think its because I'm 100% Nigerian and I know and understand how they gonna act. I know that even though its our wedding there are still gonna be things that happen in our lives that will surpass the " wedding Day" and our parents will have no involvements at all. anyway at the end of the day I know and have faith everything is going to be beautiful.
Peace!!!!!
