361 Days left

Hello people,
                        Sorry about yesterday. It was a loooong day at work. If Kari reads this she gonna think I  just wanted to put it out there because I got a career job now, but  truth be told it really was a long day. lol. So today marks 361 days left till the wedding and its crazy because time is flying. Right now I'm trying to get my finance's together before Kari and I tie the knot, and  I'm in the process of trying to move out ( finally!!!) all while trying to save $ 5000 by the day of  the wedding. Yea I know some of y'all might think I'm out my mind, but moving out before I get married is something very important to me. One: I need to have my own shit before I spend the rest of my life sharing EVERYTHING!! I own with my Boobie (Kari). lol. Two: Kari and I need something for just the two of us whenever she comes around without our parents being in our grills ( The wonderful benefits of having Nigerian parents). Three: I feel like I need to get a sense of " real life responsibilities" without my parents especially my dad. So yea I got a major task ahead of me, but I'm ready for the challenge.
                 You never really understand what people mean about anything they complain about until you go through it yourself. Weddings do bring out the true character of the people you call friends; and the fact that I've been in a wedding and now having my own I can see both perspectives. Last year when I was asked to be in a friends wedding I took that to be such a honor, and even though I was the brokest of all the groomsmen I made sure I did everything I could do to support my homie. With that said I expect the same for both Kari and I. Fortunately for me I haven't had any problems with my groomsmen  yet. lol. HOWEVER!  and this is just from my stand point, my poor wife to be is already coming across some of the selfishness that you don't expect to get from the  "chosen ones" ( Brides Maids.) I wont go into details for now lol, but real talk do onto others as you want others to do onto you.  If you expect me to go all out for you during your wedding process, if you expect me to fulfill the responsibilities as part of the bridal party, and if you except when offered to be as part of the Bridal party. Then it is expected of you to put forth 110%. Its just that simple, shit I did it while in school, and no job.
              Yea things are starting to heat up and we not even half way yet. lol. I love it though. I think going thru this whole process can only make you stronger and I'm looking forward to conquering the  obstacles in my way and keeping you guys informed as Kari and I plan for our BIG PHAT NIGERIAN WEDDING!!! lol. Until next time.

PEACE!!





 361 days left!!!!! I love it I can't wait. I thank Father Almighty for the blessing he has giving to me in Kari Lawal.