Wednesday, August 3, 2011

333 days to go!

HELLO WORLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!,
                    
I know I know, I've been slacking on my blog. Sorry folks. Keeping up with this blog has been hard with all that's going on in my life right now, but I'm back with plenty to say. lol. So I was watching Brown Sugar like a week ago, and I just got a Lil emotional (I've been like that these days smh!!!!) to see two people with that type of friendship turn into love like that is beautiful! For y'all that don't know I met Kari when I was 8 yrs old and it was love at first site (literally).  That same day she became my very first girlfriend, and I must say it was pretty intense for a couple of 8 yrs. lol. We were in a "relationship" for three years, and only saw each other whenever we went to African events or  whenever my parents went over her father house and vice versa. I was from the county and she was from the city so we barely saw each other, but the "relationship" lasted until we was 11 and then she broke up with me. lol. I was devastated I couldn't understand why, but got over it and moved on (dramatic pause).
                       Eventually as we got older we became friends again, but i didn't have those type of feelings for her anymore it was straight on a friendship tip for me. Then when we both went into 9th grade we became closer and talked on the phone every once in a while. In the summer before the 10th grade I found out me and my family were moving to St.Louis, so her father and my father decided that me and my brother and her and her sister would spend practically every weekend together for the last two weeks before we left. I didn't know at the time but Kari was very sad that I was moving, and on the last day we all hung out before my family I left she wrote me a long letter lol (which by the way i kept up until about 3 years ago), and she just basically told me how she felt about me. That was also the day we kissed for the first time. (Let her tell it she kissed me, but don't get it twisted i handled mind. lol.) While in St.Louis are friendship just got stronger and stronger to the point where I talked to her more than I talked to my own girlfriend at the time. We talked about EVERYTHING! She was my best friend. Finally in our senior year of high school over 900 miles away from each other we decided to stop fighting our love for each other and take our friendship to the next level. The rest is history in the making.
                     I feel like that's the best way to go. You want your significant other that you decide to marry to be your best friend, and I'm glad to say that me and Kari were best friends for a long time and are still best friends now. She is the only person I'll get emotional around, and THAT'S WHEN I FELL IN LOVE WITH KARI!! lol.


333 days left!!!!! I love it I can't wait. I thank Father Almighty for the blessing he has giving to me in Kari Lawal.

2 comments:

  1. You know, I kissed you first, don't be trying to make yourself look good!

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  2. Women stay tryna take our thunder lol.

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